5 keys to a charming personality

Personality is the summation of one's inner and outer traits. It is singular entity exclusive to a particular individual. It comprises body language, intuitive intellect and confidence, the pivotal points that aid in differentiating one person from another. The inner traits are qualities imbibed throughut one's life span. Aspects such as confidence and intuitive development form the base of one's personality. Our appearence, body language and diction, further add more dimensions to it. Together they form an indestructible team.





Personality development is the overall development of thinking, perception, attitude, nature, mood, behaviour and activities thsat work in an individualistic nature. It is a tool to bring out one's innate abilities for self recognition and instill confidence to face the outside world. Personality greatly impacts one's career.

One needs a sound mindset to self introspect and weed out the toxic aspects. Also, there are multiple characteristics which need to be developed keeping in mind one's personality. Here are five important points for one to create a charming personality.

1. Accept yourself
The first step in perosnality development is to accept yourself the way you are. Unfortunately, we are forever engaged in a battle with ourselves. In today's competitive world even the smallest of misstep or failure, leave us feeling lost and vulnerable. We tend to lose track and get waylaid. We start to think low of oursleves and spend days striving to achieve that perfection. Perfect personality is a myth that should be busted immediately.Do not waste time in chasing that utopia but do not remain in a stagnant state either. It is not necessary to be good in everything. Instead enahnce what is already insisde you. That can be only done if you accept yourself the way you are.

2. Channelise your energy
Modern era has given rise to a free world. We live in that illusion where all of us can express themselves freely but in reality, there are times when it is quite difficult to do that. Being emotional is not encouraged. We are always advised to wear a mask of nonchalance and not led others read our real emotions. This makes us bitter and cynical. But instead of releasing the built up energy, you are asked to remain peaceful and respectful. This happens on a daily basis resulting in the accumukatuon of all the emotions. It is quite important to release that energy by indulging in physical activities or anything that helps you to relieve the stress. Remember, it is essential to let go and once you do, you will find yourself a lot more relaxed and in tune with your environment.

3. Don't let opinions rule you
Humans are social beings. We tend to go around in groups with people having similar tastes and outlooks. We seek acceptance to be a functional part of the society. In this tryst, getting too concerned about what others say or think about our personality, becomes a habit. Trying to understand their point of view is good, but overdoing this goodness can lead to loss of individuality. You need a little space to be yourself, to live your dreams, to fulfil your desires, to live a life that is worth living.
So be good to thers, but make a rule to live your life the way you see fit.
4. Fortify your strong points
We are a sum total of our strengths and weaknesses. They help us shape the direction of our life. Yet, we focus too much on working on our weaknesses and hence, leave our strong points unattended. Enhancing your strong points is instrumental for constant growth. Knowing where you are strong and where there is need for assistance can help you nurtutre your professional interactions and enhance your intution. Self-knowledge is a powerful tool that you disregard due to self-criticising ability. Please don't do that!!


5. Kill the negativity
In today's age we come across various situations that bring up a plethora of emotions. It is the frame of our mind that acts as a blueprint to how we cope with them. Hence, having a positive outlook, with a balanced consciousness is instrumental to progress. We strive to live a positive life but there are always negative influences which try to pull us down. It is up to you to cope up to such situations and make it work for the betterment.



It takes enormous effort to develop a magnetic personality. The concessions are substantial but the benefits are on a grander scale.
So one should work on his/her personality till it becomes a habit.



Article inspired from Alka Gupta.
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